Despite what you’ve heard, your marriage doesn’t have to be a frustrating struggle that ends in divorce like nearly 60% of all marriages. In fact …
Dear Friend, Of course, you want communication, intimacy and a loving marriage. But you’ve tried so many times and so much advice you don’t know who or what to believe anymore. You just want the heartache to stop more than anything else, and you should!
See if this sounds familiar … A husband and wife were heading towards divorce due to no communication, money problems, adultery, not seeing eye to eye, and being fed up with one another. Then after getting help from Marriage Works! this same couple worked through their issues, stayed together, and are making their marriage work.
Marriage Works! helped them, and we can help you, too … We know, because we have helped thousands of people just like you. However, we don’t expect you to believe us until you hear more evidence. Don’t just take our word for it – read what others are saying:
1. Infidelity: It could be argued that infidelity within marriages is a reaction by a spouse to the real breakdown of the marriage, and is not itself the cause. Either way, it is cited as the cause for nearly a third of US divorces and is therefore the most common reason for divorce. Some surveys have shown that adultery occurs in over half of failed marriages. Spouses may be unfaithful consistently during an affair, intermittently, or just once in a one night stand. Common explanations for unfaithfulness include resentment or anger (with the other spouse), sexual boredom, and many of the other causes of marital failure. 2. Financial Issues: One of the most common reasons for divorce is economic strain or collapse of the family. Every couple has to deal with money at some stage, and when there is not enough to go around, differences in temperament and priorities are brought to a head. Even if there is no debt incurred, disagreements over the allocation of money and resources within the marriage and the home can often be enough to end an already irritated relationship. 3. Communication Breakdown: After having lived with a spouse for a number of years, it may become apparent that the couple becomes unable to communicate in a normal, meaningful fashion. Either spouse’s inability to avoid exchanges which invariably result in conflict is representative of a communication breakdown in the marriage. In extreme cases, especially if accompanied by abusive tendencies or other symptoms of dysfunction, a growing inability to deal with any verbal exchanges without conflict could be indicative of a much more serious problem that requires the attention of a mental health professional. More often;se however, growing differences between the spouses which may have their roots in other mentioned causes are to blame for communication breakdowns. 4. Sexual Incompatibility: Biological research has shown that the average strength of the sex drive in men and women is most similar throughout life for couples aged about ten years apart. However, the majority of couples marry only a few years apart, and as such, once the couple approaches their 30s, the trend is for the strength of their respective sex drives to fall out of synchronization. If there are already marked differences of sexual taste and preferences, or any other problems in the bedroom, this incompatibility is further exacerbated. 5. Physical, Psychological, or Emotional Abuse: Where either spouse is frequently abusive towards children or each other, the other spouse has clear grounds for divorce. Physical abuse includes violence, fighting, manhandling, and physical bullying of an individual. Psychological and emotional abuse can be as seemingly innocuous as verbal insults, and can range to taunting, humiliation, intimidation, and consistent negative reinforcement.
Wouldn’t you agree that it’s crazy to think you’ll get different results if you keep doing the same thing over and over again? E.g., if you were to keep touching a hot stove and kept getting burned – you’d be silly to think the next time you touch that hot stove you won’t get burnt. That’s why you need to try something different …
Let’s do a quick comparison. The last time we checked, a month of marriage coaching or counseling would set you back $450. You could even pay as much as $700 for more in-depth therapy. The other option is for you to shell out $100 or more buying up all kinds of expensive marriage books that will most likely only sit on your shelf gathering dust. Frankly, none of these options really seemed fair to us. So we figured out a way to provide you with a real bargain:
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